Give Your Partner An Erotic Massage

Find out here how to achieve an erotic massage!

Erotic massage can be an essential part of intimate moments within the couple. Plus,  it’s a very relaxing and enjoyable way to express our feelings  and connect with the person we love.

Discover 4 ways to give your partner an erotic massage. Surprise him at the most unexpected moment with a special atmosphere, a  few aphrodisiac essential oils or a few caresses on the erogenous zones. Massages are always a much appreciated and ideal gift at any time of the day.

4 ways to give your partner an erotic massage

It is obvious that in order to create a unique and incomparable moment of intimacy with your partner, you and him must want it. Often, we arrive tired from work and we abandon ourselves in front of the television or the computer and we neglect our relationship. Therefore,  the most important is desire, will and motivation.

Indeed, it is necessary to protect oneself from monotony and routine as well as to  reinvent each day so as not to lose the desire and the fire within the couple. An improvised massage can therefore be a great way to start an unforgettable night.

1. A massage with a special atmosphere

As in all  massage and spa centers,  the atmosphere in which one receives a massage must be well chosen and cared for. This is why, if you are not an expert in massage, you can take the opportunity to draw your partner’s attention to an impeccable atmosphere.

Adequate lighting, warm and soft, will help set the mood. Also, make sure that the light comes from several places and always use warm tones that promote relaxation. White light like the one in the office would break the desired lens.

On the other hand, flowers, and especially roses, also give off a romantic, intimate and special vibe. And the final touch will be provided by the music. Prepare for automatic play with soft, impersonal music that will set the mood for the moment.

2. An erotic massage with essential oils

If you want a massage full of sensations, we advise you to try with the oils. The ideal is to make a basic mixture (almond, coconut, argan, etc.) with some aphrodisiac essential oils. For example, vanilla, cinnamon, ylang-ylang , jasmine, ginger, sandalwood or patchouli.

In addition, remember the following tips:

• During the massage, make sure that there is as much contact as possible between your two bodies
• To begin with, it is not recommended to put your cold hands on your back and pour the oil directly onto the skin. It is best to spread it out at a temperature that is comfortable for the body.
• Clothing should be comfortable and not restrict circulation
• Keep soft towels handy. This will facilitate the erotic massage and avoid having to take them out and break the mood
• Be sure to remove your bracelets, chains and pendants that may get in the way during the massage

3. A gentle but intense massage

The intensity and speed of the massage will determine the success of the moment. During an erotic massage, we must relax and have a gentle rhythm, without rushing. However, the person massaging must be attentive to the reactions of the partner and more or less intensify the movements. What will make each massage unique.

In addition, consider the following:

• Remember that this is not only an erotic moment,  it is also a massage. You should therefore be aware of the manipulation of muscles, nerves and joints.
• It is best to exert a comfortable and pleasant pressure that does not produce muscle pain or tension in any way.

4. A personalized erotic massage

Finally, there are certain areas of the body which, due to the stress of the day, are more receptive to massage. So learn to discover the areas that your partner likes the most and  improvise the best massage possible. Pay attention to his breathing and stop where you notice increased sensitivity.

Erotic massage is not just about manipulating the genital area. There are indeed parts of the body such as the head or the feet which can offer incomparable sensual pleasure. Finally, remember that the most important thing is the attitude, the dedication and the care you give to every curve of the body of the person you love.